Understand yourself first. Understand your Man. Then understand the relationship" – is personality Guru Donna Partow's advice to women to help them maximize their roles as mothers, wives, and individuals. Everyone you meet will be a unique blend, but the simplest way to understand a person is by understanding his or her underlying “colors.” You'll gain an increased appreciation for the man in your life, she says in this book. You'll find freedom in the realization that just because you disagree doesn't mean one of you is wrong and the other is right. You can conserve precious time and energy once you accept that you're simply looking at life through two very different lenses. And that's not only okay, it's a good thing.