Being in a relationship with a borderline/narcissist can be intoxicating, full of spontaneity, exciting, and thrilling. You may feel deeply needed and super important to him or her. At the same time, this life is all about them and none about you. You may have even lost sight of who you are and what you want, and your own interests, feelings, and needs. You may have the mistaken idea that this is normal in relationships, but it isn?t. Your increasing depression, anxiety, tension, and confusion aren?t normal either. In fact, you may have completely lost your sense of what is normal. Through this book you will discover; - how to let go of trying to please, appease and soothe the constant complaints, irrationality and neediness of the borderline or narcissist. - real stories and practical suggestions from a seasoned therapist. - techniques for getting out of the illogical, circular, blameful attacks by the borderline or narcissist. If you feel you have lost yourself, there is something crazy about your relationship, then this book is for you. \n